UNLOCK your Attitude for Gratitude!

Gratitude

Gratitude is such a building block of having a successful life, that I truly believe without it...  true success and happiness are not remotely possible without it.  

That may seem like a strong statement, but this is SUCH a powerful mental shift - if Ego is put aside.

I may be getting ahead of myself a bit, so let's start from the beginning!

What is gratitude?

My nature tells me to go back to the definition as the beginning point of knowing "What Gratitude IS"...  so that's what I did!  In leveraging my time & resources (I LOVE relying on others with expertise, and LOVE to give others credit) so...  

I've used some quotes and information on this, for my first segment, from the Positive Psychology Program B.V.  The Merriram-Webster Dictionary is a "go-to," but the definition is very dry - and not too inspiring!

"the state of being grateful"

So...  yeah.  I think we all knew that one!

I do love the more emotion-evoking definition from the Harvard Medical School, which says that gratitude is:

“a thankful appreciation for what an individual receives, whether tangible or intangible. With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in their lives … As a result, gratitude also helps people connect to something larger than themselves as individuals – whether to other people, nature, or a higher power.”

Robert Emmons is a leading researcher on gratitude in psychology - he says that gratitude:

“has been conceptualized as an emotion, a virtue, a moral sentiment, a motive, a coping response, a skill, and an attitude. It is all of these and more. Minimally, gratitude is an emotional response to a gift. It is the appreciation felt after one has been the beneficiary of an altruistic act” (Emmons & Crumpler, 2000).

He and coauthor, Robin Stern, say in another writing that:

gratitude has a dual meaning: a worldly one and a transcendent one. In its worldly sense, gratitude is a feeling that occurs in interpersonal exchanges when one person acknowledges receiving a valuable benefit from another. Gratitude is a cognitive-affective state that is typically associated with the perception that one has received a personal benefit that was not intentionally sought after, deserved, or earned but rather because of the good intentions of another person” (Emmons & Stern, 2013).

We all may be programmed, from a young age, to say "please" and "thank you" for someone else providing for us.  But, in an understanding of it - feeling the emotion from it - it's very far from superficial.  Showing and/or stating aloud our Gratitude really causes us to FEEL that our cup is overflowing!  

A well-known Law of the Universe is that what we give, we get.  Therefore, Gratitude begets Gratitude....   not that we're doing it for that purpose.

Being Grateful is simply acknowledging goodness.  Validating that LIFE is good.  

Gratitude CANNOT come from a place of "I."  We must put away Ego, or self, to truly come from a place of Gratitude.  In doing this, we can then be fully focused on someone ELSE.  The goodness present is outside of ourselves.  

Showing Gratitude is, in turn, very cathardic.  It releases strong emotion - such as overflowing joy!  

Gratitude is an important building block, which first spurs our own growth, touches our inner, then social circles - and ultimately touches society as a whole!  A successful society is not possible without this beginning as a character strength.

My philosophy on Gratitude:  You can be grateful for something you paid for or something you just receive for no reason, but it's more meaningful, it's more pure, if it's something unexpected.  That you were not owed.  An altruistic act!

For some additional definitions, catch the replay on the vid below!


Why is it important?

There are many reasons WHY Gratitude is Important (and I actually mentioned a few in the paragraphs above, oops! 😀), but 4 reasons stood out in my mind.  

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE

Plain and simple, you will attract the type of person you are.

Jim Rohn really put this best:  "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."  

RETICULAR ACTIVATING SYSTEM

Your brain WILL LOOK FOR whatever you decide will be your main focus.  I won't go into the RAS in-depth here, but I have touched on this before.    

PERCEIVE THIS

This is a concept to be aware of, because it validates that how we spend our thoughts is of utmost importance!

IMPROVES YOU!!

The presence of Gratitude will manifest itself and improve ALL areas of your life!  

  • Relationships
  • Personality
  • Career

BE GRATEFUL!  It's EASY!  It's FREE!  (Just do it!)

IT'S A SELFLESS ACT

In order to have TRUE Gratitude, emanating from the innermost, pure heartspace...  it cannot be dependent on YOU or how YOU feel.  Ego must be displaced.  The spotlight is put onto someone ELSE in an altruistic way.  In this act, you take on the role of Servant, the role of humility.   


There are, of course, MANY more reasons you may want to or SHOULD show gratitude.  These were the top that resonated with me as I move along my journey.  


I'd love to hear more comments below on why YOU feel Gratitude is important!!



1o Ways to Show Gratitude

1) Tell someone face-to-face how much they mean to you.

Put DOWN the PHONE!  I love utilizing technology and my phone (use it for good!  LOL) BUT there is a time and place to just have a good, old-fashioned face-to-face chat.  This can be a great way to reconnect with a friend, old or new, and reinforce what is important to you.

Their body language and the look on their face when you tell them why/how you are grateful for them will be a huge boost for you!!


2) Pack a lunch or goodie bag and give it to someone you meet.

I LOVE this one!  I was recently in Chicago and passed a homeless man on my way to grab a bite to eat - whilst in the pub, I placed an extra order that would be ready to go as we finished up.  The bag of hot food was given to the homeless man as we again passed by - I share this, not to brag that I did something great, but to share a possibility of a token you may give someone.  

The concept of creating something to hand out - such as a Blessing Bag - is a unique way you can give to another person.  That can be as simple as placing some common items into a Ziploc - such as chapstick, socks, granola bars, beef jerky, hand wipes, etc - that anyone could use.  And, hand them out to someone you may see that is in need.  

You might ask how giving someone else a goodie bag shows your gratitude??  You are acknowledging your abundance by giving to someone else.  And not expecting something in return!


3) Put a sticky note somewhere random, so someone will be impacted by your gratitude!

LOVE this one!  This will DEFINITELY put a smile onto someone's face! 


4) Smile!

Smile at someone!  It's contagious!  It's free!  You will never run out!

Most of the time, you will get a smile in return, but if you don't...  it was not wasted.  If someone cannot muster a smile, they may be dealing with issues you cannot even fathom - a death of someone close...  exhaustion from working an extra shift so they may feed their family...  being brought to their lowest point by any number of reasons.  

But your smile may just be that beacon of light they needed today - even if they could not yet give one in return.


5) Call someone you know is going through a rough patch, then… LISTEN!!

Listening is a lost art.  This world moves so quickly that we are POISED to give the next answer before the question is hanging out in the air (like in one of those cartoon bubbles!), quickly, faster, ahead of the next person...  

But...

Slow down.  

Put aside yourSELF and fully concentrate on someone else.  Think of someone that may really benefit from you calliing them up (or visiting in person!) and BEING. HEARD.  

With no expectation of giving them that soluton you think they desperately need.

With no expectation of you speaking at all.

But empathizing.  Hearing.    


6) Call, email, or write to the 5 people that are closest to you to let them know how they have impacted you!

You got to the place you are, because of mentors.  These may be family members, friends, business associates, or someone you have never met!  Think of the 5 (or 2, or even just 1) people that have impacted you the most and let them know.  

It might come as a complete surprise to them!  

Your mentor may not be living.  You can still write a letter - get your thoughts onto paper and it will provide you with a lot of clarity.  💜


7) Give an anonymous donation.

I actually did this, this week!  It feels really great.  It could be $5, or giving your time.  But know that it's a Law of the Universe that the more you give, the more you gain.  This isn't the catalyst for giving, it's...  just a bonus!

In taking this another step further, give to a charity/cause regularly that resonates with you.  


8) Pay for the person in line behind you! (Toll, coffee, drive-throughs!)

My aunt used to live in the San Francisco area and when she would pay toll for passing over the bridge, she would sometimes pay the toll of the person in the car behind her.  

There are stories of this, often around the holidays, where people in a coffee drive-thru pay for the person behind them.  It's fun to see this keep going!  

Who can you surprise today?!


9) Send a video or post to someone you know could use the inspiration!

Do you know of someone that can use more Gratitude in their life?  Or would love some tips about Inspiration?  Send them an appropriate video or blog post!  

Sharing is caring (and that's not just a rhyme, it's TRUE!)!  


10) Leave a huge tip! Wait staff and service employees often have a thankless job – surprise someone today!

Leave someone a larger than normal tip!  No, a HUGE tip!  Service jobs can be very thankless, so surprise someone today!!


There are literally as many WAYS to show Gratitude as there are people on this planet!  However you do it, SINCERITY is the Name of the Game.  

How do you show others Gratitude?


What is needed with Gratitude?

Gratitude is great.  Awesome.  Life-changing.  

BUT.... 

You need to do something WITH it, for it to really work.  

I should back up a bit...  I've been listening to "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself" by Dr. Joe Dispenza.  This stuff is backed up by scientific data.  Like neuroscience.  #science

 This is a concept brought up in the book.  

You must pair an elevated sense of Gratitude with your Intent.   A focused Idea.  Your Goal.  Your Vision.  

Neither will work on its own.  

You cannot only have Gratitude.

You cannot only have a Vision.

These two elements paired WILL PRODUCE a desired result.  

Meditate on it.

Check out this video for more!


Vital tip about Gratitude

VITAL.  

That means it is NOT OPTIONAL.  

How do you speak of being Grateful?  

Is it mostly (or entirely) in regard to something from the past?  Something you have receivED, someone that HAS BEEN brought into your life, or something that catapultED into your life?

Notice above, everything is IN PAST TENSE!  

You are being thankful for the past.  In stating your gratitude, you are asking for more of that.

In order to make a change, you MUST state your thankfulness IN PRESENT TENSE for what you have not yet received.  

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In doing this, you are re-wiring your brain.  

"The neurons that fire together, wire together. "

You are moving your brain into the space of thinking this has already happened!  

And, in effect, changing your world!

Start doing this today!

ACTION:  

Clearly realize your Vision.  Then begin to focus on that Intent, stating your Gratitude that it has already happened!

TIP:

Realize that your brain and the Quantum Field hear this and they will product what you ask for.

There have been many instances of people asking for JUST what they NEED.  And they are given EXACTLY THAT.  

So, don't be afraid to ask for what you WANT!!

*You get what you ask for.*

Check out the video on this VITAL TIP below!


I really hope you loved this post on Gratitude!

If this was the first time you've heard of some of these concepts, they may seem a bit foreign.  

They are resounding Laws of the Universe, and if you are true to these, you WILL be catapulted into a dream life you cannot even fathom - I promise you!

Blessings and Abundance to you!


If you'd like to enjoy the Audiobook I referred to above (Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza), check out this link:  bit.ly/2t0rBsn

Are you now in a position to achieve the mindset of a champion??  To Step into the Shoes of Success???  Become a part of a community that is a great support on this journey and will give you a WEALTH of tools to use to improve yourself and your business!  This will give you the ULTIMATE in building your business!

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In Memoriam

A Tribute to my dad on this Memorial Day

Many people don't know...  my dad was drafted during the Vietnam War – he opposed war due to his religious standpoint, taking a stance as a conscientious objector.  A conscientious objector, or CO, is an “individual who has claimed the right to refuse to perform military service” on the grounds of freedom of thought, conscience, and/or religion.   Other options to serve the State are available if that claim is upheld, and he chose the option of a different form of service. 

He and Mom lived in Illinois at the time, since that is where they had both attended Bible College and he took on a service role to the state to become a worker at the Dixon State School in Dixon, IL.  This choice had its own difficulties – Dixon State School (previously Dixon State Hospital) was created to be used for those that were epileptic, but through the years its use expanded and came to be used to also house the “feeble-minded.”

In 1899, the Board of State Commissioners of Public Charities were instructed to prepare plans for the establishment of the Illinois State Colony for Epileptics, appropriating funds for the construction – which did not happen until 1913.  The colony opened on May 1, 1918. 

The purpose of the facility soon expanded to include care for the “feeble-minded”, being renamed Dixon State Hospital in 1922 and changed again, in 1952, to Dixon State School, and Dixon Developmental Center in 1975.  This facility site is now the Dixon Correctional Center, which has become one of the largest prisons in Illinois. 

The population at Dixon State School was a mix of those with mild to severe mental retardation, standard mental capacity with varying degrees of physical ailments (such as hydrocephalus and spina bifida) to those that were psychotic & dangerous.  It was a mentally and physically challenging job, working with the range of those living at the facility, and also being physically threatened at times by being thrown against the wall by those too large to easily manage. 

The conditions were nothing that any of us would want to visit, let alone live in.  Many would have required a one-on-one nursing ratio, but that was not available.  There were many problems with keeping up with the cleanliness in regard to feces and vomit because of the limited number of staff vs residents.  Some residents were not mobile and others immediately removed their clothing after being dressed. 

The plight of these institutions was beginning to gain exposure through media sources, such as the Chicago Sun-Times, drawing the conditions of facilities like these to the attention of the public.

PHOTOS ENTITLED THE MENTALLY ILL IN ILLINOIS

1971 Pulitzer Prize, Feature Photography, Jack Dykinga, Chicago Sun-Times

“Jack Dykinga’s photographic portfolio, based upon the particular manner in which he experienced being face with the overwhelming images of utterly discarded human beings, the mentally-ill who were warehouse in the back wards of state mental hospitals, represented a step toward an understanding of co-constructed meaning, a sense of which is embedded in ‘Because He is, I am.’”

The book, Inventing the Feeble Mind: A History of Mental Retardation in the United States by James W Trent, Jr. shows and contrasts the images shown by Dykinga with other happenings in the institution.  He discusses the social problem with the way in which these individuals have been treated through the years, on up through the ranks to the administrators. 

Food served in the cottage lobby instead of the dining room, during flu epidemic at Dixon State School for Mentally Retarded.  Photo credit Time Life photo archive.

Other interior and exterior photos credit www.asylumprojects.org .

This was an era when people were sent to facilities such as this when doctors didn’t always know what to do with a diagnosis and often the thing to do was send the patient away to an institution.  Sometimes, this was due to a lack of community resources, and also to deal with subjects that at that time were taboo. 

An archived article in People, dated October 8, 1979, outlines an article in which a girl named Karen Boldt sues her parents and doctor for an incorrect diagnosis.  She was written off at the age of 3 months and committed to Dixon State School thereafter.  A nurse remembered her admission charts reading “imbecile” while today, she has a higher-than-average IQ.  Read more here.   

While strides have been taken in this field, there is much to learn about the mind and the causes of various issues.  Care facilities are increasingly more capable of caring for those with mild cases, all of the way to severe.  But there is still a social stigma associated with any type of affliction that causes mental issues, and even more strides that must happen so those who need care get the best possible. 

On a day such as today, I remember and feel proud that Dad always was stood up for his convictions, even if it was not an easy thing to do! 


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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hi, my name is Chondra Rankin!  My passion is teaching and inspiring YOU how to become prepared to grasp the luxury of designing your life well - so you can live your life... your way!

CLICK HERE to kick-start your life!

Basic Reminders...

Welcome back!

This weekend was really jam-packed and my mind is still swirling, surrounding some of the events.  In fact, I was knocked off-kilter a little bit.  One of those bittersweet events, torn... and still need to process some of that.

But that isn't what I will talk about today.  Like I said, still processing!!

I do have some BASIC lessons to share that came up over the last two days, and while they are simple, sometimes things we forget about...  they are keys in life.


You need to rely on YOURSELF for motivation moving forward.

Seriously.  Figure out what drives you - I know you all have that inside of you.  If you rely on someone else, you will be sorely disappointed.  It MUST come from within.  Everyone has their "why," their driving force...  you need to KEEP IT REAL and figure it out!  

Because if you haven't defined that, you will find yourself faultering on those tough days.  If you do not have this figured out, what will PULL you through it toward the future you desire.

You may be currently lying to yourself and lying to others - and that will only hurt you and the relationships that are important to you.  That's just not worth it.  BE HONEST. 

Don't kid yourself - there IS something that is RAW & REAL inside of you and is your driving force.  It may be uncomfortable at first to come face-to-face with it, but it's worth it in the end.


Be true to yourself!

There are some things you need to do that other people JUST WON'T UNDERSTAND.  Whether it's being in a relationship with someone that your friends and family don't "get," or working your hiney off on a business that most people you know don't support...  and the list could go on.  

I was chatting last weekend with a friend and was smack-dab in the middle of this major enlightened moment - choosing my words carefully to best convey my thoughts as clearly as I could.  In those words, I included that even my significant other did not fully understand nor support what I was doing.  

And do you know what?  

This friend - with whom I haven't had a LOT of really deep, meaningful conversations with - looking me intensely in the eyes, said...

"I support you."

I was a little bit speechless, honestly.  He repeated that statement.  

"I support you."

It really blew me away.  Unless you say something out loud, you will never know the support and opportunities there are.  People cannot read your mind.  

Hearing that statement was liberating and proved to me that you never know where support may come from.  It might not be someone close to you, that you would think would support you in anything!  But don't let that stop you!

If you need to do something - do it with all of your heart and soul, EVEN IF others aren't supportive and even try to keep you from it.  There's someone out there that DOES support you.  Probably many someones.  

When you are at the end of your days, and you look around - who will you have to answer to?  Someone you're trying to please right now?  Chances are they will be long gone and you only have yourself to answer to - don't be left with regrets.    


HAVE FUN! 

This is something that came up a couple of different times!  I have a tendency to really focus on the "task at hand" and then get so immersed in that - it's fun to ME.  😁  (nerd alert!)

1) I've been making an effort to spend more time, undistracted, with my significant other.  Not just with one ear listening while I am busy with my business!  Allot time to and have fun with your loved ones.  

After all...  that's why we're here.

2) Each year, I dedicate time to getting together with a group of musicians - in order to perform at an historical Opera House.  We have two rehearsals (second of which was yesterday) and then a performance, all one week apart.  

It feeds my soul to get together with other high-caliber musicians to gather and create beautiful music.  Expand your horizons in your current talents/hobbies or go dive into new endeavors!

3) Saturday night, we attended a 50th birthday (costume) party!  This was for a gal that is ALWAYS true to herself, something I continually work on and aspire to!  It was a time of fun and celebration.  

As someone that falls to the side of the chart labeled "Introvert," the thought of going to a party can sometimes be a mixed bag.  BUT, as I also work on skill to become more comfortable meeting new people, it becomes easier.  Met a bunch of new people that night and had a good time & laughs!  Don't ever let fear hold you back from introducing yourself to others - after all, they're just humans like you!  (mostly 😁)

(The photo below is from Saturday's birthday bash/costume party!)


Living in abundance and moving toward your goals and dreams DOESN'T mean life will always go perfectly!  It DOES mean you have invested in yourself enough that you have gained the tools to be able to work through adversity and keep moving toward success.  

That may include (but is not limited to!) mindset, meditation, breathing techniques, building your Vision, and other skills.  It's an amazing journey and well worth traveling.

Additional blog posts you may find helpful:

Contemplating Meditation

Meditate on This

How to Create an EMPOWERING Vision Board

Inner Peace

Reading for Life: 10 Titles to Build Mindset

Harvest Series Recap And... Two Days of the Week We Shouldn't Worry

A Goal is a Dream with a Deadline


Are you now in a position to achieve the mindset of a champion??  To Step into the Shoes of Success???  Become a part of a community that is a great support on this journey and will give you a WEALTH of tools to use to improve yourself and your business!  This will give you the ULTIMATE in building your business!

Go ahead and take the 10-day trial for $10 bucks. (You know you want to.)  This will allow you unlimited access to begin learning and implementing the business building strategies to grow your brand, your clientele, and increase your profits.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hi, my name is Chondra Rankin!  My passion is teaching and inspiring YOU how to become prepared to grasp the luxury of designing your life well - so you can live your life... your way!

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The March King

Welcome back!

In 1906, John Philip Sousa and his band graced the stage of the What Cheer Opera House, What Cheer Iowa. 

Actually, his band spilled out the back door, as they did not all fit on stage! 

In his honor, a group of musicians in Eastern Iowa assembled one hundred years to perform a concert on that very stage, on the same date he and his band were there one hundred years prior.  We are comprised of professional musicians, including many band directors, and those of us that play just for fun!  Through the past ten years, we have had various themes for concerts, under the direction of Gary Huxford, but the first was dedicated to the same music played by Sousa’s band.

John Philip Sousa (11.06.1854 – 03.06.1932) was an American composer best known for composing and performing marches, giving him the name “The March King.”  His most famous were Semper Fidelis (the official March of the United States Marine Corps) and The Stars and Stripes Forever (the national March of the United States).

Click below to hear a recording of the Stars and Stripes at the Opera House!

http://whatcheeroperahouse.com/media/

Sousa was a very gifted musician, and able to play multiple instruments from the age of 6 through growing up into his teen years.  At the age of 13, his father (who played trombone in the Marine Band) recruited him into the US Marine Corps band to stop him from joining a circus band.  After leaving the Marine band, John assembled The Sousa Band, which toured 1892-1931.  They performed 15,623 concerts at home and abroad, talk about dedication!

The What Cheer Opera House was built by the Masonic lodge and completed in 1893.  Later, the Masonic lodge decided to build a new temple – with the potential there to destroy the building, it was saved by a movement of those that researched its history and restored the building to its original style by 1973. 

The Opera House was home to many performances by national performers, including Hank Williams, Jr., Guy Lombardo, and Porter Wagoner.  Lawrence Welk and the Glen Miller band played there on a regular basis, and now it is used primarily for local talent. 

At the annual concert in 2015, “the John Philip Sousa Foundation will present a historical marker to the opera house as a memorial to the John Philip Sousa band. These markers have been places in more than 75 Sousa band concert locations. This is the first Iowa site to be designated.”

http://www.dailyiowegian.com/news/lifestyles/what-cheer-opera-house-receives-sousa-historical-marker/article_9e5f93b8-dcb1-11e4-a1d0-c33a280d6d29.html

I believe to be successful moving forward, we do have to have a foundation in history.  It makes life a richer place as this is passed on to future generations.  


Are you now in a position to achieve the mindset of a champion??  To Step into the Shoes of Success???  Become a part of a community that is a great support on this journey and will give you a WEALTH of tools to use to improve yourself and your business!  This will give you the ULTIMATE in building your business!

Go ahead and take the 10-day trial for $10 bucks. (You know you want to.)  This will allow you unlimited access to begin learning and implementing the business building strategies to grow your brand, your clientele, and increase your profits.

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Did This Help You? If so, please let me know in a comment below!!  Please also feel free to check out my business page on Facebook!  

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Hi, my name is Chondra Rankin!  My passion is teaching and inspiring YOU how to become prepared to grasp the luxury of designing your life well - so you can live your life... your way!

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Inspiring Women... 10 Quotes from Angela

Welcome back!

Angela Merkel was born in Hamburg, West Germany, a typical German child but with family ties in politics.  As a youth, she was a member of the Free German Youth, a movement of the young people sponsored by the Socialist Unity Party.  

In 1990, Merkel was elected for constituency, which was followed by six more federal elections.  Quickly, she was appointed to the Cabinet, serving as the Minister for Women and Youth.  She continued to grow in public opinion and challenged the existing government.

In 2005, Angela Merkel assumed the office of Chancellor of Germany - serving as the first woman in that role.  She has remained in that role, despite challenges through the years.  Merkel has been described as the leader of the European Union, and been noted by Forbes magazine twice as the world's second most powerful person.

Chancellor Merkel graced the cover of Time as the Person of the Year in December 2015, which declared her to be "Chancellor of the Free World."  She has continued to be spoken of as the "leader of the free world."  

Angela has accomplished much - and I'm sure there will be more to be seen from her!  Please join me in appreciating 10 quotes from this accomplished woman below:

I am thankful for the way I was raised, to be positive. Even when times have gotten rough I have always tried to look on the bright side. Even when I was put down, yelled at and made feel insignificant, I still thought things were alright. I did realize when enough is enough.

A good compromise is one where everybody makes a contribution.
One can remain more sure-footed by taking small steps, but perhaps achieve greater speed by taking bigger steps. Of course, one also runs the risk of setting out in a completely erroneous direction. Surely the important thing isn’t the length of our steps, but that the objective is clear.

Ordinary people regard a man of a certain force and flexibility of character as they do a lion; they look at him with a sort of wonder, perhaps they admire him; but they will on no account house with him.
I might bend, but I will NEVER break because it’s in my nature as a strong woman.

Look forward to the future and look forward to the unknown. Nothing stays the same and people change. One day that hurt and pain will be a distant memory.

Take whatever life has given you and create the best life you possibly can - you have no excuses, nothing can hold you back...  but you.  Don't give yourself the time to be scared... and settle for nothing less than giving it your all!

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